According to Christopher Ryan, one of the co-authors of Sex at Dawn (2010), human beings are not sexually monogamous by nature. The book contends that, for much of human history, men and women have taken multiple sex partners as a commonly accepted (and evolutionarily beneficial) practice. The thesis, controversial and widely criticized by anthropologists and evolutionary biologists, didn’t keep the book from being an international best-seller; it seemed to be something people were ready to hear.
POF doesn’t perform any criminal record checks or provide identification confirmation, which makes it difficult to guarantee total safety -- but then again, no website can. Like all the others, however, POF warns against giving away too much personal information, and encourages members to report others who are behaving suspiciously. For a full list of tips and conduct policies, check out their FAQs.
But at the same time, your Facebook profile might contain information you don’t want strangers to know about you right away, such as your employer or where you went to school. While almost all dating apps display only your first name coupled with your job and alma mater, that could be enough to find you elsewhere on the internet. There’s no need for a first date to have examined your full LinkedIn résumé before they even shake your hand. Consider omitting this info from your dating profile: In the best case scenario, you might have to endure pickup lines about your day job. In the worst, a harasser or stalker could continue trying to communicate with you even after you block them.