Margaret E. Morris is the author of "Left to Our Own Devices: Outsmarting Smart Technology to Reclaim Our Relationships, Health, and Focus." A clinical psychologist, researcher, and creator of technologies to support well-being, Morris was a Senior Research Scientist at Intel from 2002 to 2016. She has conducted User Experience research at Amazon and is an affiliate faculty member in the Department of Human-Centered Design and Engineering at the University of Washington.
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