Who it's for: Picky people looking for something super specific in a partner. And guys, this is not the place for the younger millennials: EliteSingles loves to brag that 82% of their members are college grads, and with most of its members being 33-50 years old, we can pretty surely say that the main target is mature, working professionals rather than the the Tinder-using generation. Sorry college kids.
You might also be wondering how Tinder users' motives for using the app relate to their actual use of the app. LeFebvre's qualitative data couldn't really address this question, but Sumter and colleagues were able to examine the association between Tinder use motives and participants' likelihood of going on a Tinder date or having a Tinder hookup.2
lovo is a popular free dating app in the Europe. Lovoo lets you chat with people and find your love online. We like how they are very straight with the messages surrounding their Apps description. If you go through them, you will be fascinated big time. Lovoo claims that 420 million messages are sent every month on their platform which depicts that there is room for everyone. They have a feature named “Live Radar” which you can use after enabling GPS on your mobile. This feature helps people find singles or people looking to get mingle around them.
That sort of massive following is a selling point in itself, but Plenty Of Fish has more going for it than just pure size. It’s something of a “lite” version of other dating apps, and includes Tinder’s swiping mechanics, and a Happn-style ability to see matches near to you. It does have its own little twists on the formula — POF’s “Spark” system allows users to quote any part of their amour’s profile, making icebreakers that much easier.

We have one regular weirdo who we don’t like. We call him Casanova. He comes in before the date, always, and buys one $5 beer. Then he goes behind this one wall to sit in a partitioned off spot, even if the bar is empty. He’ll sip this one beer the whole night, even if the girl wants another. It always seems like they go home with him. Sometimes, he’ll come in on a Friday with one girl, and Saturday with another. It’s the creepiest thing to me. He will walk up with them when they want a drink, and then he’ll say, “Oh, I forgot my wallet.” Or “Oh it’s all the way over there behind that wall.” He never buys anyone a drink, and he never drinks anything interesting. I’ve seen him on probably 30 dates over the year, and he doesn’t want to know us. It’s like the anonymity is helpful for him.


Tinder is the machinery that keeps bar culture going. On weekends, you see people paired up, and you know they didn’t all meet at work. It seems like 8 out of 10 couples at the bar, at any given time, are on a Tinder date. It was sloppier before this Tinder paradigm shift. It was drunker. Some people had to be so drunk to talk to anyone. Now, there’s no element of cross pollination. No element of chance. Generally, a room full of people on Tinder dates is very boring. We’ve been here for 4 years, and we’ve watched it grow to become the main thing that happens in a bar.
As a fellow Canadian I am embarrassed that you come from my country, and angered at your lack of insight into canine eating habits, of all things. That you equate them with human eating habits is mystifying. I for one love watching my dog scarf down treats in one gulp and enjoy his food with gusto to the extent that I happily have to clean up around his food bowls. Get over yourself, you've been south of the border for so long that you've lost your Canadian ability to accept others as they are and instead are wanting to make everybody over in your own warped image. Pretentious git indeed.
Coffee Meets Bagel hopes to offer users better quality matches by sending curated matches, or "Bagels," each day at noon. They suggest ice breakers for first messages and the profiles are more in-depth than Tinder. For people who like a little extra hand-holding, CMB isn't the worst option. However, I felt the app was confusing to use; too many features and too many gimmicks. I shouldn't have to lookup online tutorials to figure out how to use a dating app. And why call matches Bagels?
I was on Clover for quite some time but had forgotten it even existed until I started to throw this list together. I felt like it was a less successful hybrid of OkCupid and Tinder, and I also felt like the user base was pretty small, even though I live in an urban area with plenty of people who use a wide variety of dating apps. Clover says it has nearly 6 million users, 85 percent of whom are between the ages of 18 and 30.
As I have previously said, the user experience is excellent due to the intuitive and clean interface, straightforward navigation and opportunity to sort contacts, view people nearby and send gifts for most alluring profiles. The only tiny moment I would consider as negative is relatively small user pics in preview mode even in the updated app version. Another detail that is both an advantage and a problem is free availability in app stores: it means a lot of trashy profiles are registered just because people are curious and not because they are willing to date someone. The performance is not bad for both Android (4.2 user rating) and Apple iOS devices (lower rating due to profiles database quality). 8/10.
Tinder: Tinder is universally acknowledged as the app which started an entire genre of such apps. Tinder boasts of having successfully arranged more than 20 billion matches. It introduced a generation of people to swipe left or right, depending on whether or not you liked the potential match. Swiping left means you like someone. The mantra of the app is simple: Swipe. Match. Chat. Date.
The chat function inside a dating app is a beautiful place. Oftentimes, it doesn’t permit users to send photos or links—just text messages, gifs, and emoji. That might seem limiting, but it’s a safety protection (no unsolicited dick pics, phew). Until you meet someone IRL, it’s best to talk only within the app where you connected with them. That way, if the date is a flop, they don’t have your phone number and you don’t have to go to the trouble of deleting theirs.
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