If you’re at a point where you know a relationship is not the way to go (and you’d rather not be scammed), there are plenty of lesser-known hookup apps that will suit your needs. Here’s our running list of the best trustworthy, scam-free hookup apps available in 2018, whether you’re looking for a f*** buddy who shares your kinks, a safe space for non-monogamy, a couple seeking a threesome, or a classic one-night stand.
The bad news is, Feeld requires you to log in using your Facebook account, so your Facebook friends will know you’re using it before you hide your account. And if you’re not a fan of hippy-dippy language, then the app’s overtone is likely to irritate you. Can you imagine that you are just about to post a message then this line appears on the screen: ‘no nudes-society is not ready yet!’ That’s what I mean.
In August 2016, two engineers found another flaw which showed the exact location of all users' matches. The location was updated every time a user logged into the app and it worked even for blocked matches. The issue was detected in March 2016, but it was not fixed until August 2016.[76] In July 2017, a study published in Advances in Intelligent Systems and Computing found that Tinder users are excessively willing to disclose their personally identifiable information.[77] In September 2017, The Guardian published an article by a journalist who requested all data that the Tinder app had recorded about her from the company and found that Tinder stores all user messages, user locations and times, the characteristics of other users who interest a particular user, the characteristics of particular users of interest to other users, the length of time users spend looking at particular pictures, which for the journalist amounted to 800 pages of detail.[78]
Who it's good for: This is the place for rom com enthusiasts. Everyone would love for the story of how they met their person to be something serendipitous and crazy — but let's be real, the chances of that happening completely on its own aren't great. Happn acts as a wingman that steps in and introduces two strangers — by alerting app users of cuties who are physically close by. The uniqueness of the idea on its own is enough to make people hop on the Happn bandwagon.

The Pure hookup app is a unique geo-oriented online app that provides one of the most secure link-up services.  Users are allotted one hour to create a profile, upload five photos, put in an eye-catching tagline and location, and look into possible matches. Once matched, pure users can request additional photos from each other and agree on a meeting place and time. For a Casual / hookup app, Pure is quick, efficient and secure.


In the popular media, Tinder very much has the reputation of being a "hookup" app, designed to facilitate fleeting sexual encounters. At the peak of the Tinder hype, an article in Vanity Fair announced that Tinder represented the "dawn of the dating apocalypse." Whereas others in the popular media have suggested that many use the app in search of love.


A Facebook account and cell phone number are required to set up a Tinder account. Once you’re on and specify what gender you’re interested in matching with, the app lets you upload up to six photos and write a short paragraph about yourself. You also have the option to link your Spotify account so potential matches can see what kind of music you like, or your Instagram account if you’d like to display even more photos. The whole setup process took our reviewers about three minutes and was far less comprehensive than sites like eharmony and Plenty of Fish.
Such a problem has the disrespectful behavior of men online become that there has been a wave of dating apps launched by women in response to it. There is Bumble, created by Tinder co-founder Whitney Wolfe, who sued the company after she was allegedly sexually harassed by C.M.O. Justin Mateen. (She reportedly settled for just over $1 million, with neither party admitting to wrongdoing.) One of the main changes in female-centric dating apps gives women the power to message first; but as some have pointed out, while this might weed out egregious harassers, it doesn’t fix a cultural milieu. Such apps “cannot promise you a world in which dudes who suck will definitely not bother you,” wrote Kate Dries on Jezebel.

On the larger sexual dating apps out there it can be really tough as a big and beautiful woman or a man who loves them. With such a huge emphasis put on looks a woman who doesn’t have the same look as the other girls may face a lot of rejection or criticism by using the same dating apps. This often results in BBW completely avoiding the more popular dating apps and looking for other alternatives. Then, the guys who are trying to find them on the normal apps strikeout and disappear as well. It’s a vicious cycle!
You discover potential matches based on searching instead of getting match suggestions, which gives you more control over your online dating experience. For each match you see, you also see the percentage match rate you have with that individual, giving you not just another conversation starter, but an actual data-driven indication (based on the profile questions you answered) of how well you and someone you find in your search results may match. OKCupid has a fun, laid-back feel to it, and users generally adopt a similar attitude when interacting on the site, making it a legitimate choice both for people looking for casual flings, and those in search of more serious, long-term relationships.

Changes in the last year have made OkCupid a bit more like Tinder, focusing more on swiping and eliminating the ability to message a user without matching with them first. You can still send a message, it just won't show up in the recipient's inbox unless you match. Because who doesn't love sending a thoughtful message to someone who might never see it? However, OkCupid has pointed out that these changes did help lower the number of offensive messages users received, which might not be the worst thing.
POF doesn’t perform any criminal record checks or provide identification confirmation, which makes it difficult to guarantee total safety -- but then again, no website can. Like all the others, however, POF warns against giving away too much personal information, and encourages members to report others who are behaving suspiciously. For a full list of tips and conduct policies, check out their FAQs.  
Why? I met my now-fiancé on Bumble. I liked that I had the power to choose who I talked to. I was tired of getting cornered by creepy men at bars who wouldn't take a hint, but I was too nice to just walk away. (In hindsight, I should have!) Bumble allowed me to never feel obligated to talk to anyone just because they initiated a conversation with me.
The site is literally called iHookup and it's used for exactly what it sounds like — need we say anything else? It's slightly less risqué than its main competitor AdultFriendFinder, but still clearly used for the same thing. One of the main differences between iHookup and the numerous other sites used for hookups is that your feed won't make you feel like you've been violated. Members actually post pictures of their faces (instead of their nether regions) and put effort into their profiles. It's a really nice change of pace for people who are in the mood, but not so in the mood that they need porn shoved in their face. (It's still X-rated though, don't you worry — you'll realize that when you're bombarded by gross ads.)

Dating apps don’t even have to limit you to your smartphone, either. Many desktop dating sites actually offer apps and vice-versa. This means you can sign on from your computer and reap the comfortable full-screen benefits of a dating site, but when your conversations and matches start coming in, you can take them with you when you leave the house -- no more restrictions.


Tinder is a location-based social search mobile app that allows users to like (swipe right) or dislike (swipe left) other users, and allows users to chat if both parties liked each other in the app (a "match"). The app is often used as a dating site.[1][2][3] Information available to the users is based on pictures from Facebook, a short bio that users write themselves, and optionally, a linked Instagram or Spotify account.[4]
One potential pitfall of Tinder is that swiping becomes so reflexive that it is easy to accidentally swipe left on someone because you’re going too fast. In those cases, Tinder’s Rewind function is invaluable — hand over a few bucks, and you can recover the person of your dreams that you accidentally swiped left on (free users will simply need to slow down and pay attention to what they’re doing).
Even after testing seven dating apps for PCMag, Karl Klockars remains happily married to his wonderfully understanding and awesome wife, Nora, and lives in Chicago. He is the author of Beer Lovers Chicago, runs the guysdrinkingbeer.com site, writes for outlets including AskMen, Chicago Magazine, and Thrillist, and recently entered the world of voic... See Full Bio
Grindr is a leading gay hookup app, and we expect it’ll be that way for a long time to come. More than 27 million men from more than 196 countries have signed up for the app, and more than 3.6 million men use it every day. Grinder was founded by Joel Simkhai, a gay man who understands the dating struggles this community may face. This is also why Grindr regularly launches campaigns to combat discrimination against LGBTQ people.
Why it's awesome: It's the ideal place to come when you're ready to settle down but still want to feel ~hip~ and have fun. First things first: OkCupid's advertising is astounding. Its newest ads redefine "DTF" in colorful graphics that depict same sex couples as well as hetero couples, and it truly makes online dating seem like way less of a cliche. Along with the fact that it has gained a trusted rep by being one of the first dating sites ever (2004 to be exact), OkCupid has won the hearts of millennial and mature singles alike. But don't let their love of raunchy internet slang make you put them in the "hookup" category —OkCupid is still a serious space, and most users are genuinely putting effort into finding lasting connections.

First things first: OkCupid and its user base is pretty liberal (which can also translate into "sex positive"). The ads with same-sex couples are an obvious giveaway, but OkCupid has snuck in other little features to weed out more conservative-minded people. For instance, they'll ask questions about whether you're for or against the defunding of Planned Parenthood or same sex marriage, and if you feel obligated to help fellow human beings — all as a way to tell right off the bat if your potential match leans left or right. (This can help you avoid awkward date conversations in the future.) Liberal ladies found that this worked to their advantage, as OkCupid released statistics showing that liberal-leaning answers to those questions made you 80% more likely to find love on the site. Other sites don't go into this type of stuff much past religion, but with politics being more of a hot topic now than ever, you can imagine how torturous it would be to end up with someone who starts an argument with you every time the news is on.
One of the first free dating apps on the scene, Zoosk is integrated with Facebook and Google+, which makes it even easier to sign up and start searching for your match. Not only does Zoosk have a free app for iPhone and Android, but it also has a free Facebook-specific app, allowing you to choose which one works best for your needs. From a technology and price perspective, Zoosk is on top of its game, so you definitely won’t regret downloading it.
“Sites like OKCupid and Match.com have never been able to hack the rejection problem. They haven’t simplified the process much, either, still prompting users to fill out those long and antiquated dating surveys. The process is a drag. Rejection is disappointing. And the fact that you’re doing it anyway only plays into the lonely stereotype that the online dating industry has had such a tough time shrugging off.” [11]

Happn is a local dating app. It uses your GPS to find people close to you. It does so with varying degrees of success depending on where you live. Like most dating apps, this one won't do you any good if it's not a popular app in your area. Thus, if you don't get a ton of matches, you should probably give up on this one. The app works by showing you who you cross paths with in real life. Once it happens enough times, their profile shows up on your timeline. You can then connect and chat. This is a neat concept because you're automatically matched with people who are usually in the same kinds of areas you are and that can be a helpful ice breaker. You can buy coins as in-app purchases. Like Coffee Meets Bagel, they're useful for adding functionality and increasing your visibility to other users.
The gist: Claiming to the be the app that "introduces you to every lesbian you've ever wanted to meet," HER is the award-winning mix of dating and social media that lets you meet girls you know are girls, as it requires a Facebook account for signup and is solely for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women.  Language is inclusive — it's not a lesbian site aimed at a male fantasy — and they'll help you widen your dating pool beyond the circles you already know IRL.
The worst I ever saw was this dude who came in and ordered an Old Fashioned and waited. The girl was about 20 minutes late. They started talking, and when I came back to them a while later, they were arguing. They didn’t even acknowledge me. She gets up, intentionally knocks over her water, and walks out. The whole bar is watching as she storms out. He halfway pursues her, but then stops and puts his hands on his hips and turned to us, “Can I get another shot?”
For the uninitiated, Tinder is a mobile dating app that allows users to locate other singles in their geographic area. Users fill out a brief bio and upload photos. They can then start viewing photos of other users who match their age, gender, and location criteria. Users swipe right if they like what they see and swipe left if they don’t. They are then notified of any matches, where both people swiped right on each other's profiles. Thus, users can quickly view hundreds of local singles and decide with a quick swipe of their finger if they’re interested or not.
One thing to note if you don't fall into the cis-hetero dating pool: While most of the apps reviewed here are inclusive, there are those that are friendlier to the LGBTQ community than others. For example, OkCupid goes beyond forcing users to choose between being a male or female, including options like Hijra, genderfluid, and two-spirit. If you're a man seeking a man or a woman seeking a woman, you'll want to steer clear of eharmony: It doesn't even give you the option of a same-sex match.
With a premium version launching today, March 2, 2015, it remains to be seen whether Tinder can keep its torrid growth going. The novel user experience of Tinder has been replicated in every type of application possible, and the ever-fickle millennial audience can tire of the site at any moment. While IAC is confident that a paid version of the app won’t slow growth down, there is little question that “free” always grows faster in the mobile space. Because of the company’s unique situation, as a subsidiary to IAC, it doesn’t face the pressure of venture investment and could easily become just another mature asset in IAC’s portfolio. Only time will tell, but because IAC is a public company, we’ll be able to get at least some read into the health of Tinder at every earnings call. Co-authored by Everette Taylor. Special thanks to Ross Simmonds for his early work on Tinder's content and PR strategy.

You can not send any P**n content to the user, it’s strictly prohibited. You get meaningful relationships on Bumble. If you break any of their rules like hate speech and adult content then you’ll be banned in no time. App if free to join and use with premium membership which provides Bumble booster and Bumble coins which help you grow your profile.

Finding the best hookup apps in 2019 is a bit like walking through a minefield. Everywhere you look there is a hot new app that promises to make your life easier with some new technology, artificial intelligence, or by using some algorithm on your Facebook friends. There are so many new apps out there now that very few of them even have enough people using them to be worthwhile!


Aside from the usual physical appearance, location, and sexual preference questions, Clover also gives you the option of answering 20 profile questions in a similar manner to OkCupid. (If you're impatient, just stick with Tinder or PURE.) There is an option to check that you're only looking to hook up, so you can at least ensure that you won't be giving the wrong idea. While you can swipe to match, you can also request to go on a date (and even suggest a place and time), or create mixer events for multiple users to meet up. (AskMen's Clover reviewer saw a mixer titled "Lol why am I using this app," and we love that.) Note: There is a free version of Clover, but the premium memberships allows for unlimited chatting, plus you'll be able to unlock all photo, video, and badge features. Paying for an app is annoying, but Clover's impressive 4.5 star review and nearly 20,000 ratings on the App Store tells us people think it's worth it).
3 Stars (It's okay): This item has both positive and negative qualities. I can definitely see some people loving or liking it as it may work for them, but I would likely not purchase in future. While you might think a 3-star score equates to average, 3 stars counts against the product as a negative score. So if you’re not meaning to give it a negative score, rethink your 3-star rating!

While many people take advantage of Tinder’s geolocation features to find potential matches nearby, Caroline set wide location parameters purposefully to avoid meeting anyone from campus or university circles. She focused on low-income suburbs a good distance from school. Doing so was also a way to visibly reject her family and the high value that they, especially her mother, put on wealth as a criterion for selecting a husband. Tinder became a weapon in Caroline’s continuing struggle with her family as well as a way to heal emotionally—psychological uses that may not immediately come to mind when one thinks of Tinder.

Looking for dating apps for long-term relationships? Or want something social and flirty? Prefer paid apps? Or want to start with something free? Our review of 2019's best dating apps with help you find the app (or apps!) best suited to your needs, no matter what style of dating you prefer. 2019 is the year of dating apps - and these are the best of the best.


As others applications, dating apps can have breaches: hackers have revealed security issues on Tinder[16], Coffee Meets Bagel[17] or Adult FriendFinder for instance. On the last one, the data of more than 412 million users was exposed, one of the largest leak in terms of the number of accounts exposed[18]. In 2016, the sharing of personnal informations from almost 40 millions users of Ashley Madison by a group of Hackers, the "Impact Team", revealed their real name, phone number, email adress, geographical position and sexual preferences[19]. Ashley Madison assured their more than 35 million users that the service was totally "anonymous" and "100% discret" but they didn't delete completely accounts when users chose to (and paid for that) or recognize that data had actually leaked in a first time. Some suicides have been reported after the leak[20].
To sum up: Don’t over-swipe (only swipe if you’re really interested), don’t keep going once you have a reasonable number of options to start messaging, and don’t worry too much about your “desirability” rating other than by doing the best you can to have a full, informative profile with lots of clear photos. Don’t count too much on Super Likes, because they’re mostly a moneymaking endeavor. Do take a lap and try out a different app if you start seeing recycled profiles. Please remember that there is no such thing as good relationship advice, and even though Tinder’s algorithm literally understands love as a zero-sum game, science still says it’s unpredictable.
She used the app in some slightly uncustomary ways. Tinder promotes its link with Facebook, in part to provide assurance about the identity of other people on the app and in part to pair up with people within their social networks. An identity is less likely to be fabricated on Tinder than on other dating sites (although some do create alternative Facebook accounts to disguise themselves on Tinder). To some, hooking up with mutual friends seems appealing and less dangerous than meeting strangers, but not to Caroline. She avoided any matches with mutual friends. Most of all, she didn’t want her sorority sisters involved in this aspect of her healing.
- The Relationships Needs Assessment is a quiz of about 50 multiple choice questions designed to get you to better understand yourself based on nine key factors: interdependence, self-efficacy, communication, sexuality, preferred expressions of affection, intimacy, relationship readiness, conflict resolution, and attitudes about love. Overall, I found the assessment to be pretty accurate, and helpful for gauging what one should be looking for in their next relationship given the results.
The good: CasualX brands itself as a Tinder and Craigslist alternative for one-night stands, with users looking for hook-ups, friends with benefits, swinging, extramarital affairs, and anything else sexual without the emotional attachment. Users can get a casual hook-up fairly easy without any strings attached. The app is also organized, easy to use, and provides security features.
We’ve talked a lot about the critical role word of mouth played in Tinder’s early growth, but what was it about Tinder that sparked the surge? Beyond being a mobile, location-based dating app, Tinder innovated on and leveraged some core truths about user experience and psychology to make the app addictive and one worth talking about. After all, a mobile dating app on its own doesn’t create this much excitement–the way Tinder is built has everything to do with how it caught fire. Here we take a look at some of those key differences and innovations that make Tinder memorable, addictive and worth sharing.
Hinge focuses on common connections that you and a potential partner share on Facebook. Which is great if you trust the judgment of your friends and family. Of course, some of us are trying to meet new people, far removed from our everyday lives. (Hinge may have gotten the hint, since you no longer need Facebook to sign up.) The app also asks questions to help you match with better connections, which can be a plus for serious relationship seekers. 
Mobile dating went mainstream about five years ago; by 2012 it was overtaking online dating. In February, one study reported there were nearly 100 million people—perhaps 50 million on Tinder alone—using their phones as a sort of all-day, every-day, handheld singles club, where they might find a sex partner as easily as they’d find a cheap flight to Florida. “It’s like ordering Seamless,” says Dan, the investment banker, referring to the online food-delivery service. “But you’re ordering a person.”
If you find yourself a tad nervous about signing up for an app that allows you to explore your kinks and your fetishes (or even your sexual orientation), remember to only do what you’re comfortable with. You don't have to link your Instagram account, for example, or make yourself discoverable to mutual friends. Depending on your level of curiosity, you might explore what turns you on by talking about it online, or in person, with others who are just as curious. 
“Women do exactly the same things guys do,” said Matt, 26, who works in a New York art gallery. “I’ve had girls sleep with me off OkCupid and then just ghost me”—that is, disappear, in a digital sense, not returning texts. “They play the game the exact same way. They have a bunch of people going at the same time—they’re fielding their options. They’re always looking for somebody better, who has a better job or more money.” A few young women admitted to me that they use dating apps as a way to get free meals. “I call it Tinder food stamps,” one said.

Bumble also checks the boxes for usability, a slick user interface, and easy setup. In addition, the relatively ballsy move of designing a dating app specifically with women in mind pays off. It’s the only app that clearly states plainly and prominently that it prohibits pornographic material, requires its users to respect one another, and has a code of conduct in place specifically to make it a safe and friendly place. We only found one other dating app that had a code of conduct — and it was hidden within the Terms of Use, which no one reads. The 24-hour time limit to connect with someone adds just enough pressure to say “hello,” so matches don’t languish and get reshuffled into the deck. And if you accidentally nixed someone? Just shake your phone to undo your rogue swipe.
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