It’s very quick and easy to set up and use. The profile creation is pretty standard. You add photos, age, profession, and interests, and you can also specify what you feel like doing, whether that’s taking a walk in the park, seeing a movie, or having a drink. Happn has some nifty integrations — you can use Facebook to set up your profile, hook up your Instagram account to automatically add photos, and add Spotify to see if your musical tastes align.

One of the better-known gay and lesbian dating apps, HER is a top option for queer women (and womxn) seeking a Tinder-style dating app that's exclusively focused on the LGBTQI+ experience. In its previous incarnation, it was known as Dattch; as HER the app's aim is to be a more-inclusive queer dating hub. Yet, with initial matching based on liking photos from a grid of nearby users, those seeking a serious relationship will have to be ok with asking questions to see if there's a personality connection.8
Most dating apps have both a free and paid version. Choosing not to shell out for the paid membership option won’t stop you from meeting the partner of your dreams. Most of the perks offered—such as the ability to swipe right on an unlimited number of potential matches—only make a difference for the heaviest power users. If you find a service you really like and want to see what additional features could do for you, don’t let me stop you. But when you’re first starting out, it can often be more helpful to try different apps to see what works—rather than financially committing to one option. Plus, dating apps can get expensive: Bumble’s paid tier costs up to $24.99 a month, whereas Tinder’s starts at $9.99 for users under 30 and $19.99 for anyone older.
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